tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post1396946482329193802..comments2023-07-22T02:42:54.635-07:00Comments on Suze's Corner: PCOSSuzanne Maughanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01699592381901194159noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-51293609330695419712011-09-01T14:04:45.360-07:002011-09-01T14:04:45.360-07:00I don't know if you remember me from high scho...I don't know if you remember me from high school. I was friends with your husband. Im so sorry to hear of your struggle; I just thought I'd put some comments for you to think about since I am VERY familiar with infertility and it will always be a part of my life. (my situation is different. We don't have almost any count on his end of it so we will always be using the most intense fertility to get anywhere). I know it is overwhelming at first and it will take some time for it to sink in. I had such a hard time at first, but it has become our norm, and I am surprisingly ok with where we are and the progress we've made. You might feel totally alone, but you aren't. There are so many people out there who go through it and it helps so much to find those people and just vent sometimes. <br />I do know quite a bit about PCOS even though I don't have it. From experience of other friends and a sister for some reason the 3rd baby just seems to be a bit harder to conceive. I have no clue why. My sister did fertility with her 3rd, but has been successful on her own since. I have another friend that just did the basics in fertility for her first, and immediately got pregnant with her 2nd. (she had a bad case of PCOS) I have another friend who had a tough time with the first, and hasn't had any problems since. It is all up to God as long as you are doing what you can. All the doctors I have been through (and from my friends opinions too) the best way to improve on PCOS is to take the best care of your body that you can. Exercise and drinking tons of water can do wonders. <br /><br />Sorry this was a bit much, I just wanted to give you some hope. Just remember you aren't alone, and you can do this. It does get better.Ashley Madsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959807461332632904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-56194626189418476752011-08-27T13:32:52.269-07:002011-08-27T13:32:52.269-07:00thank you for you for sharing some of your feeling...thank you for you for sharing some of your feelings. I find strength in other womens stories.. Huston and I have been trying for about 10 months to even have our first child. and we are having no luck. I have not started any process with any doctor yet. but we probably will here shortly. Good luck Suzee. im sorry :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02281952265945829969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-7077227539056411852011-08-25T11:21:26.728-07:002011-08-25T11:21:26.728-07:00I dont know if you know me, i know of you from hig...I dont know if you know me, i know of you from high school but im not sure we've ever really talked. I worked at your dads office doing twilight for a while. Anyway i just wanted to give you my two cents and although our challenges are different the end results are the same. I have endometriosis and was told from the tender age of 14 i might never have children. When my husband and i were married we started trying right away. After a year, and countless failed pregnancy tests (and lots of tears) i started fertility drugs. They're easy, and for me they worked. I know a miracle dr if your interested... Ive had 5 friends unable to concieve until they saw him.. now 4 of the 5 have kids. Keep your chin up... it is hard no doubt about that, but it makes you appreciate those tender miracles that much more! “God never bestows upon his people, or upon an individual, superior blessings without a severe trial to prove them.” Brigham Young<br />This quote... got me through a lot.Laceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00612444420463123493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-73902128598400789222011-08-25T09:31:09.787-07:002011-08-25T09:31:09.787-07:00Oh Suzanne! I'm so sorry to hear this! I know ...Oh Suzanne! I'm so sorry to hear this! I know how frustrating it is to NOT be pregnant! I haven't been diagnosed with anything as of yet, and not sure that I will go in for any testing, because I know when the time is right I will have a pregnancy that sticks around. In the mean time, I've miscarried 5 times in the past 3 years. The gap is only getting wider and it frustrates me! I have faith though that when the time is right, it will happen. I have had impressions that atleast 1 child is missing from our family, but I would gladly welcome more if that ends up being the case. Keep your head up. It will all work out!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01497767747485229338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-70831707691557407882011-08-25T09:15:40.646-07:002011-08-25T09:15:40.646-07:00I'm really sad for you, Suze. That's one o...I'm really sad for you, Suze. That's one of my biggest fears, too. If you need help cutting dairy out of your diet, let me know! I did it when I nursed Carson. It is easier than you think and you can eat most hard cheeses so that's good.<br /><br />Hugs!Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10342495524685548162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-153870066999338142011-08-25T06:32:29.306-07:002011-08-25T06:32:29.306-07:00Hey! So sorry to hear that! It sucks-I know, but i...Hey! So sorry to hear that! It sucks-I know, but it will get better!!Tracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00718902665531209803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-5808141455594035432011-08-25T01:33:55.799-07:002011-08-25T01:33:55.799-07:00I'm not really sure what to say as a stranger ...I'm not really sure what to say as a stranger but just wanted to wish you all the best as you deal with this devastating life changing event. Gentle hugs to you.ladychiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01399371039307232709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-7691262814791544482011-08-24T23:29:44.757-07:002011-08-24T23:29:44.757-07:00I received the same diagnosis 10 years ago. I'...I received the same diagnosis 10 years ago. I've actually had all the typical symptoms for the last 20 years. It wasn't until I started really questioning why I wasn't getting pregnant and pushing for answers that my md got serious. Keep in mind this was 10 years ago. Things have improved a lot since then. Due to PCOS and multiple other medical complications we were told our chances of conceiving, even with fertility treatments was slim. We were devestated. There was no way we could afford those kinds of treatments, so we kept hoping, praying and trying. It has been a long and rough road (mainly due to the OTHER medical issues), but I am happy to report that we have three beautiful little girls. The first was conceived with only a little help, and the other two with none. I guess I just want to give you a little hope, to let you know it's not impossible and that you're not alone.MommySaidThishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16604618558823529699noreply@blogger.com