tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post316723338728452811..comments2023-07-22T02:42:54.635-07:00Comments on Suze's Corner: EmotionsSuzanne Maughanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01699592381901194159noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-36377944545962959192010-01-18T19:31:10.585-08:002010-01-18T19:31:10.585-08:00And you also dont know my situation or how often I...And you also dont know my situation or how often I am on blogger or facebook. I do these things when my kids are asleep. I am not stupid enough to complain about not seeing my kids and then ignore them while I am home. We make very good use of our time. And I can afford my kids---hence the working. If I wanted to be the kind of mother who took every form of govt assistance to stay home, Im sure I could make it work but I choose to afford my kids with my own money.Suzanne Maughanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01699592381901194159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-84398802132978316392010-01-18T19:28:51.366-08:002010-01-18T19:28:51.366-08:00Yes, Joey, I do believe I did things right. I beli...Yes, Joey, I do believe I did things right. I believe that sex outside of marriage is a sin, hence the getting married and then having children. I knew having my kids was the right timing. Who are you or anyone else to even suggest that I should have waited to have children. You dont know me or my situation. All you know is that I dont have the opportunity right now to stay home with my kids, a vague point of view on the reality of my life. Being a mother, it is difficult to leave your children, whether you want to or have to. Im sure every working mom has feelings like this. And Im sure not every one of them is choosing to work---so should they have waited to have kids? Obviously not since God sent them to them. Had it not been right for me to have kids at the time, I never would have gotten pregnant. Thank you for your blunt point of view but it is really not necessary to put down someone who is already on the ground.Suzanne Maughanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01699592381901194159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4302216566823815862.post-1654782867149179722010-01-18T15:18:19.835-08:002010-01-18T15:18:19.835-08:00Maybe you should have waited on having kids. Maybe...Maybe you should have waited on having kids. Maybe they came too quickly, not saying you should regret them... but if you waited until you were more comfortable and able to afford them, you may not be in this position. However, you are, so make the most of your time with your children. Don't sit on blogger or facebook all day... hang out with them and when you have to go to work, think about them, instead of hating your situation. Comparing yourself to a situation you know nothing about will not help. How do you mean you did everything right? How do you know that? What is right? Just because you got married and then had kids, doesn't mean it was the right timing. Take responsibility for yourself and do something about your situation instead of complaining. I don't mean to be so blunt and I know it's coming off rude, but someone has to tell you the truth. No more sugarcoating.nUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02588370562309575413noreply@blogger.com